What follows is a link to a paper I wrote in the past to brothers and sisters that we knew at the time, explaining why we made certain life-style changes. I do not include it on this web site to deal directly with the issue brought up, but rather to present it as a case study in finding the will of God in our lives. The things that I discuss in the paper are very relevant to a wide variety of situations we all encounter regularly. What the Holy Spirit has taught me, I desire to pass on to my brothers and sisters in Christ, in an attempt to be a "good steward of the manifold grace of God" (I Peter 4:10).
What got this started was a precious sister in Indiana. She was talking with my wife, and saying that she wished I would put that paper on the web site, so that she could refer others to it. After praying about her suggestion, I felt that it could be valuable to others.
I would like to encourage you to read "Portraying the Truth".